A Note from Dassie’s Desk: Balancing Reverence and an Independent Spirit

A core tenet of CMCH's educational philosophy is our aim to nurture independent thinkers. We know we've succeeded when a child thinks deeply and questions everything. At the same time, while fostering independence and curiosity, we also strive to raise children who respect authority figures in their lives. Teaching this balance is a delicate task, and for a child, it’s an even finer line to walk.

This concept brought to mind a parallel with a fundamental theme of Rosh Hashanah: “Coronating Hashem as King” over the Jewish people and the entire universe.

When we acknowledge G-d’s sovereignty, we submit to His Divine will, recognizing that everything belongs to Him and that our very existence depends on Him. This acceptance of sovereignty is synonymous with the concept of “Kabalat Ol” (accepting the yoke of Heaven).

In past generations, when monarchs and dictators ruled, this concept was more easily grasped. However, as Americans raised to be self-sufficient, independent, and ideologically opinionated, submitting to established authority becomes increasingly challenging. This cultural tendency to challenge and reject authority presents a unique difficulty in fully embracing Kabbalat Ol.

Nonetheless, the essence of Rosh Hashanah remains the coronation of our King, which serves as the foundation for all our actions throughout the year.

Consider someone from China or Iran, where yielding to a dictator may feel more natural, but this does not necessarily reflect true, willing submission. For Americans, who deeply value independence, accepting a higher authority carries a unique weight. The choice to crown G-d as our King is made on a profound level, resulting in an absolute and heartfelt commitment.

May we find the ability to uphold our independent ideals while simultaneously submitting to Hashem and His Torah. In return, may Hashem accept our coronation and reign over us with boundless kindness and grace.

Wishing each of you a Shana Tova U’Metuka!

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